Despite what you see on TV and in movies, having sex for the first time is rarely romantic, pleasant, or sexy. Sure, it can be—in theory. It was with my boyfriend on our one-year anniversary. My anxiety got the best of me, and I freaked out and told him to stop after the first thrust. Plus, I was the first one of my friends to have sex, so no one could tell me what to expect. A week later, we did it for real, and I felt cool for finally doing it.
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We broke up a few months later. Simultaneously sad and funny. I was 16 and he was The only thing I remember being weird was this strange feeling afterwards that something was still inside me? Kind of like a phantom penis— weird. But I learned later that is apparently percent normal. We were parked on the outskirts of a bonfire party—the typical type of party where we lived, in the middle of nowhere Maine.
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Growing up, there is so much hype built up about how your first time should be. You're told to either wait until marriage or to wait until it's with someone you love. However, that's not always the case, and whether you like it or not, losing your virginity is a memory that will stay with you forever. For most people, this does not include rose petals, candles, or Marvin Gaye.
Everyone's first time is different. Some people regret who they lost it to or how. Others think it was perfect no matter how the relationship turned out. In the end, no one can really prepare for exactly how it happens.