But this is just a temporary thing. Chances are, you will spend the rest of your life with someone whom you are happily coupled. You are not meant to be stuck in this back and forth. You are not designed to forge a beautiful connection with someone and then have it severed.
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All things must come to an end: that means relationships, too. Getting over someone you love can seem impossible now, but don't worry: there is a light at the end of this tunnel. With time - and the right strategies in place - the pain will start to fade and you'll feel more like yourself again. Try practicing what you would say before going to a friend or family member about sensitive issues.
How to Get Over Someone You Love Deeply and Move on with Your Life
According to research published in The Journal of Positive Psychology, it takes 11 weeks to feel better after a relationship ends. But a separate study found it takes closer to 18 months to heal from the end of a marriage. Because love is a messy emotion, and each relationship comes with its own memories and feelings, the end of any relationship will be a unique experience. And there is no set time limit for healing - as factors including the length of the relationship, shared experiences and memories, whether you had children, betrayal, and the depth of emotion all play a part in the healing process. Fortunately, although it may not seem like it in the moment, millions of other people are experiencing similar emotions - and millions more have.
You have to be patient. I know, that sucks to hear, but the only way around it is through it. Relationships form the basis of meaning in our lives.